mASF Forum - chaachaa: "As for getting good, I did it the same way I became confident. I screwed up a lot, and kept doing it. I noticed after I started getting numbers, I had a large amount of girls
calling and canceling the meeting before we got together. So, just to see what would happen, I started calling the girl before we were to meet and canceling the date. I would
just say something came up, and I was sorry I wouldn't be able to make it. I noticed women I broke dates with start calling me. And if I set something up the next time, they
rarely broke the date. Also, when I had no shows (they stood me up), I would call them the next day, and expect the voice mail. I would leave a message to the effect of how
sorry I was I didn't show up, and I didn't have their number or I would have called, and since I stood them up, I wouldn't blame them if they never talked to me again, but I just
felt I should call and at least say sorry. LOL Lot's of girls would call me back, and just say it was no big deal, and if we set a second get together up, they usually showed. It
was weird. Now though, it's been a long time since a girl broke plans with me."