MUST READ: DONT OVER DO CF. HAVE YOUR OWN ELITE WORLD

Read topic starting at message #197561: "Hey, I think the frame to have is two fold. One, is the alpha frame: you are too cool for every one, even the SHBs. But secondly you are also an extremely extroverted guy and you LOVE to have fun, so you RELUCTANTLY approach, in a way thats kinda doing the girls a favour.

That way they enter you REALITY.

Then you hit the brakes. You are back to your alpha self. Cool, calm, occasionally CF, not trying too hard. Ball busting, frame maintaining...everything else. This works best for guys with less in the ways of looks because good looking guys get approached automatically so they can be even more congruent by not even approaching.

But here is the good news. By making the approach you are letting an ounce of your wonderful personality out.

keep it in the Field!

PDaddy (1st post btw)"