Monday, April 18, 2005

MYSTERY on Last Minute Resistance

There are five ways to overcome LMR, but the general principle is not to barrel through it with eternal persistence...it's to help her get rid of the feeling so that she doesn't experience it in the first place.

(1) Seven hours. If you wait seven hours before trying to full monty her, you will dramatically reduce LMR.

(2) "You have highjacked my brain." Convince her of this and you capitulate to the needs of her LMR: you two are pair-bonded...you won't just fuck her and leave. Start your "highjacked brain" campaign ten minutes into the sarge:

"Do you want to hear the weirdest thing? I don’t know you from a hole in the wall, I really feel this connection with you. Its so weird. Say that when you went away, I actually missed you."

(3) The Freeze Out. This is Mystery's classic LMR tactic. If a girl stops you at a certain point as you are moving toward sex, and it is not simply token resistence, you STOP. Completely. Stop. Say, "I understand." And go do something else. It is imperative not to come off as pouting. Rather, you're just communicating, "If you don't want to do this, that's cool." But really, this is a punishment for her since she is aroused. You're saying, you don't get the reward of me arousing you unless you're willing to take this all the way. Anyway, stop, go do something else, then return, maybe touch her leg, and things will resume. Then tell her to do the thing she wouldn't do before. Continue as usual.

(4)"We should stop." This is for token resistence: when a girl comes up with lots of stupid excuses why you shouldn't be hooking up. In those cases you just say, "You're right, we should stop," and keep going.

(5) Riker's 3 Rules: You tell a girl, "Look, I have three values that I live by. One, I always wear a condom. Especially with a girl that I first have sex with. Two, I want this to be fun. I want this to be win-win. I want us to both enjoy it. Three, when we look back at this tomorrow, I want us to look back and be glad that we did it. If everything has happened again, I want us to want to do it again. If we don’t feel these are true, then we shouldn’t do it."

And there you have it...the solution to LMR.

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