Mystery's KINO TEST

A terrific early kino initiation gambit is the KINO TEST. It works like this: while you are talking (saying a routine that has NOTHING to do with your holding her hands), hold your hands out. She will notice this and as you are non-verbally indicating for her to put her hands in your hands she will. Does she put them in your hands face up? If so, this is an indication of disinterest (IOD) because she didn't think of holding your hands. Are they face down? This is an indicator of interest (IOI).

Then lower your hands. Do her hands and arms stay tense and not follow down with your hands (an IOD) or do they have compliance and come down with your hands (an IOI)? When you hold her hands, does she hold back (IOI) or not (IOD)? When you then let loose your grip, does she still hold your hands (IOI) or let go entirely and pull her hands away and back to her sides (IOD)? This is the KINO TEST. If she mentions the hand holding you can simply say "This is sub text. We aren't supposed to talk about it. Now where was I before you interrupted my train of thought? Oh yes ..."

The kino test is awesome because not only is it a great kino initiator, it is also a great way to tell where you're at. You'll typically want to do it in the Attraction stage of the M3 model. If she passes the test (puts her hands face down and lowers them while you lower yours) then you'll know that you have enough attraction to move to the qualification phase and then shift to Comfort and Trust. Nice.

Doing the above will really help your kino escalation go much more smoothly when you get to point where you are isolated with the girl and are building comfort. In my next newsletter, I'll go into more detail about how to escalate kino while in the Comfort and Trust stage. But for now, work on initiating kino in the Attraction stage. You'll be glad you did.