How to be COOL and NOT NEEDY

"To hot girls, most men they meet stare at them, hoping for EC and maybe a smile. Men get nervous around them cos they are afraid to screw up their chance or say something wrong. Men come over and linger in meaningless convo with them for no apparent reason. Men try to come up with cool or clever things to say. Men try to act cool around her. If one man talks with her, other men will join in for no reason. If she touches a man, other men will act weird like they are very uncomfy with it.

During an average day, stuff like this might happen 20 times to the average hottie. She has seen it all and can recognize it very easily. Any man who acts like that is at once put into the �average� category, and a girl who can have any man will NEVER EVER have sex with a man from this category.

Do you have a FIRM INNER BELIEF that girls generally like you.. that there will always be enough girls giving you attention and sex.. that getting girls is not something you need to worry about? If not, you are a validation seeker.

At least 97% of guys here are validation seekers on the inside.

I am a validation seeker. I�m aware of it and fight it actively, so I manage to fake being cool and fuck a hottie now and then :D Since I know validation seeking is needy and repulsive, I try really hard to be non-needy and not seek validation.. but my deepest motivation is still to get validation from her in the end.

Hot girls seek great sex.. And a guy who is chill/cool around them no matter what, so they don�t have to mind him all the time. Not easy to find when 97% of males are desperately seeking validation at all times..

EDIT: 'Girls dig me.' 3 times a day I say this while thinking back to all the hot girls I have nailed lately. Just another tool in my daily fight for alphaness - a fight against neediness and the urge "